Case Study; it's not a matter of saying your going to do (someday island) you have to go and achieve it, (Bliss-Vale)

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Inspiring stories; It is not what we say, or what we want to do; it is what we do after the intension that makes us.....

When best way for me to explain this is simply by example, I will use a story of a past client, who is not very successful and of course I have changed the name to protect the innocent but they have approved me using them as a case study.

Larry was not able to confront the idea of change, this time his change was a new job, like many of us we do fall into the jobs we are currently in and have not intended to set out to achieve, right there is the first failure, no Goal setting process, this means we tend to drift like “a boat on a river”.

Larry came to me and said “I’ve not had a choice, there making me redundant” my first reaction was “Larry you always have a choice, ok it does not seem like it right now as you have been told you have to leave you current job, but this is a new direction for you (your choice)” I then asked Larry to write down how he is feeling on a scale from 1 – 10 and 10 as the better and 1 as the worst.

This was funny, Larry said “well it has to be a 1” okay I respond, that shocked him, his body relaxed a bit more, “right tell me, what would an advert say if you really wanted a job that will make you wake up on a Monday morning smiling, lets leave the dream job out of it for now”

He draw up a list of five descriptions that he might find on the advert, as he finished completing the firth one he looked at me and smiled, “what is it Larry”, “I just realized, I don't really like the field I am in, but I prefer the locations”.

He raised a valid point; a lot of people especially in the 90’s were looking for a location, which had all the perks a blue chip company is expected to have. It’s important to have a good working environment, how many people do you know has been in the same job for over 10 years and the offices are dated, the first thing they say is “I love the people here”.

The next step, Larry should be doing is working out what factors of a job can help him achieve all five goals he had written down, he worked out that he was office based and prefers to be on the road visiting blue chip companies.

Please see below, how Larry used his grow model to achieve the final goal; I can confirm Larry is a very successful senior sales person and living in the states, he is due to be married within the next year. Larry wanted me to point out he was 28 when we worked together.

Finding my way Case study 2

A client came to me and said “my son has gone off he rails and I am not sure what to do, is there anything you can foresee”.

This ladies son was around 16, and the boy was troubled but not getting into the trouble the mother was worried about, he was keeping a lot of secrets when in the past he would be very open.

I felt that this boy was not bullied or taking drugs in fact he was just concerned about growing up to be a man, his father died some years before and he was finding it hard to deal with, I past the information to my client and said “he is not bad he just need to speak to someone about his hidden feeling” I told her to consult with someone about this boys feelings, then I advised her of process that could help them both dealing with this change.

I am glad to say that I worked and the boy has now left school and studying to be a GP. June

Finding the other side of you

HI all

I hope your all well?

I would like to title this “finding the other side of you” it is clear that we all need another part of each other, the person who has the same interests and understanding, we spend all to long looking for what is on the outside than what is on the inside, the you find later in life both of you grow apart.

Love is a complex but amazing thing, I can cause people to hate, hurt and even kill in the name of what they call love but remember love is a feeling of need, the words “you complete me” comes to mind as that what we are all looking for in one another, I found in my experience when you find that one that is almost the true love the act of making love is far from memorable it in fact out of this world.

What happens here is that you contact on another level with a person that is looking for the same things in life as you, when I have spoken to many people they have said “what happens over a period of time when we grow out of one another” I response well that is a part of nature, we can grow out of friend and out of people we are in love with.

As for the spiritual aspect, as long as there is love on that level and you can grow as one and walking the path you will find that true love will grow and then you will achieve the greater happiness and bliss, we find that love has not barriers, in fact its is a open door and can not be closed, did you know even though you fall out of imitate love with someone there is still the love there, but in some ways if someone has been unfaithful then that love get replaced by the negative aspect of love called hate, but we have that feeling of love underneath.

When we met someone that ticks all the right boxes one finds it hard to deal with the changes, its all well and good if you are both single but at times we are not and this can cause great distress especially if families are involved, as a enlightenment worker I have these situations from time to time but each time it has a difference, so I deal with each aspects and case as best I can.

My strong connection with the source is hugely important, and I find that we will buidl strong bridges if we trust and are open, this is a step that can take time and is something that needs to be planned and thought through, remember there will be pain but if worked on well pain does not have to be bad on prolonging.

Bright blessings from the eternal flame

matt

An emotional situation

Hi Matt

I hope your well?

I am feeling a bit under the weather and not sure what to do, when I am like this many people come to me and ask for advice I don't mind helping but I have my own things to sort out and many don't understand that I have my own issue I need to get through.

Can you advise, Is this wrong to think like this as I feel guilty.

Karen

My Response

Hey Karen

I am well thank you and I hope you are too!

Well sorry to hear you are not feeling the abundance of life as things are mounting up on you, but I try to address this as detailed and to the point as possible; we all have stumbling blocks at one point in our life but the fact that your help those who has there’s though you have a lot going on with you is a step towards enlightenment.

When you think of others no matter what the situation especially when you put your life on hold to help others karma has to balance this out therefore things in your life will take a turn for the better though at first it may not look like it.

In many teachings it is said “the path of humanity has a lot of a unsure aspects about its future, and humans only think of themselves along this path it is human to be human and think of others before yourself, that is true humanity” this is in true fact what it is to be human so we must think when we can do to build on this and make the future better.

So in short take heart from what you do for others is a rewarding thing and will only bring you bliss as you don't help others for your own gain but for the sake of human nature.

I hope this has made sense, let me know how you get on.

Bright blessings from the eternal light,

Matt